ppl and their mouths...

i do not understand a lot of things and it hurts my head alot just to justify the universal rights and wrongs. what should be the right thing to do and what should we refrain from doing.

but what i always tell myself is... whatever u do... no matter good or bad. something good (AND bad) sure comes out from it.

and what i also understand is that each person's judgment is very different

so i really don't understand why one has to be so harsh on their judgment against other ppl's preference.

why one has to make that person regret so much with their decisions (esp. purchases)?

fine... a regretful purchase should be a lesson for all but what can they do?
especially it is bought by someone else who thinks it is nice for u.
and u definitely did NOT force them to fork out the money.
and u think it is not bad and u memang pun wanna get something from there so much.
it maybe very childish and selfish and stupid to get something ok-ok looking with a very expensive price tag from a place where u like so much JUST FOR THE SAKE OF GETTING IT.

but i still dont think u should b so harsh on that person
and make that person regret forever
and make them look at the piece in a very different light forever

i think that regret is a very unhealthy feeling
it hurts and cuts deep into your heart.

it is ok if it is just a stupid top with a cheap tag...
but it is definitely bad if it is a branded piece.

it is so hard for me to say who is wrong and who is right when i am not even sure whether the piece is really that nice. all i know is.. I DID NOT POINT A GUN TO MY MUM AND BLACKMAIL HER.. BUY IT OR ELSE.... i dont understand why this girl has to be so hard on me and this purchase that i bought. fk-it.

should i just leave that ugly (as perceived by somegirl) piece hanging in my cupboard so that i can remind myself this expensive lesson every waking morning!?

AND WHY AM I SO DARN EASILY INFLUENCED?!
I THOUGHT I SHOULD BE THE STUBBORN ONE!?

PPL ALWAYS SAY.. FOLLOW UR HEART.. THINK ABOUT WHAT U WANT.. NOT WHAT OTHERS WANT U TO WANT..

IF u didnt know, actually it is very hard to act like that especially when u dont even know what u want. so when u are blur about ur wants, u tend to listen to other ppl - those who have gone through what u are about to - and it is so hard to only listen to one and it is only as hard to take all's advice. you think that he is not good, he thinks that she is not good, she thinks that you are not good. how?

this is why sometimes i LOVE to shop alone where i dont have to listen to so many advices and harshful comments or gooood comments on things that i dont like! whtever regretful decisions that i made.. i regret myself and i dont need to blame anyone and i tend to blame ppl ok....

HUH!! WHATEVER LA...

the conclusion is i only take the majority's votes bcos i cant decide myself and i do not wanna walk around like a fashion victim.