tuesdays with morrie

"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they are chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to
devote yourself to loving others,
devote yourself to your community around you, and
devote yourself to creating something that gives purpose and meaning."

"If you don't respect the other person,
you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you don't know how to compromise,
you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you,
you're gonna have a lot of trouble.
Your values must be alike."

these are 2 of the few things that were covered in the book Tuesdays with Morrie.
i find it very meaningful and interesting...
but.. easy to be said but can it really be done?...
Can we really be that selfless to devote to and respect our partners including the times when cold war is on?

maybe that is the reason why divorce rates are so high and people now tend to have many bfs or gfs in their lives.. Why most people back then only have one gf or bf thru out their whole lives?.. i think the reason being.. they are more humble and less competitive and i think more caring and thoughtful. Now, everyone seems to be impatient.. seriously you cant trust the horoscopes anymore in judging a person's patience. everyone now wants to win win win. and everyone seems to be in the rat race to see who earns bigger money. so where the the hell do u find time to devote ourselves to the community bla bla bla?..

and yes.. since one is half asleep, how do u expect the person to be suddenly wide awake?..

so yea.. thats the thing.. we learn from other people's mistake. and its kind of a wake up call for me.. it makes me look back when i buy magazines like crazy.. HOT magazine.. that was my favorite magazine.. thinking back.. why did i spend my money and time to look at other people's sad drama when.. i should have used the time to spend on say.. cleaning up my room so that my mum can shut her mouth.. or clean the toilet so that i can shut everyone's mouth on why is it so smelly? or i can also use the money and time to go to orphanages to play with the kids and donate the money to them. how cool and generous is that?.. but can i do it? i CAN!.. but do i want to?.. i want to... but i tend to come up with a lot of excuses when i am actually very lazy to go.. which means.. i am not all that ikhlas. so i spent my time reading away on brangelina.. pitying on jennifer anniston.. and having great hatred towards angelina jolie.. lalala.. so dumb..

lucky i have stopped buying magazines since last yr. anyway.. not bout magazines only..

2 weeks ago, my friend sent me this video to my handphone. he says that it is very interesting..
so ok... i watched.. i saw this malaysian police talking talking talking whatever heck cause the words werent very clear. then.. i saw.. someone tied at the hands and blinfolded being escorted by a few policemen to this open air place. ok..then i knew what the video is all about..

my friend said that.. this person purposely raped someone... thrown into jail.. asked a police to record his rotan sentence. somethinglike that.. and yea.. they tied this asshole to i dunno wht u call it.. arms tied upwards.. legs spread wide open tied to something as well.. but pants off... so.. his buntut was for all to see.. then i heard..SATU!.. PIAK the sound goes as a decent dressed indian man swings a thick rotan swiftly onto the asshole's butt. details of the first few hits are unnecessary but when it came to the 7th or 8th hit.. his butt opened like flower already. u could see the inside of his butt cheeks.. then piak piak piak.. at the end when everything was over.. i think that guy has already fainted.. blood drips and the whole butt was red.. like period smeared across ur butt... but can u imagine?.. its from ur buttock cheeks!..eeww!.. oh yea.. it was 20 strokes altogether.. kesian... I MEAN... padan!.. this video should be shown on tv or printed medias to warn perverts the consequences of raping!

these days KL also very luan!.. just near my house Jinjang Utara.. 3 bastards broke into a house.. rob the whole family never mind. still wanna rape the daugther in law!.. sick!..
and girls who goes out till late at night are prime targets too!.. and the govt actually plans to have midnight sales here.. though i am sure it will be fun.. but not when u go back home.. i think raping cases are worse during then.

i just came back from singapore 2 weeks ago. i experienced their midnight sales.. oh gosh. .it was really fantastic!!... things..LOOK so cheap there.. haha.. bcos their price tag shows half of the price shown here. and when u go home.. even though the whole place is close to deserted.. but dunno.. why.. it just feels so secured.. but i have to say the night life here is better than singapore's. our bukit bintang here is their orchard road there.. but try going out to bukit bintang at 12 am.. still got a lot of cars oh.. orchard road? hmmm not as many. mayb its bcos..most of them don even drive.. in KL.. no car can DIE!

OK LA.. its time to go take my bath.. bye bye